Sweet And Simple Wedding

Thank you all for gathering here to witness the joining of [Bride] and [Groom] on their special day.

[Something Personal about how the Bride and Groom Met, Fell In Love and Decided to Commit to a Life Long Relationship]

Their Love is the reason we are here. In marriage we not only say, "I love you today", but also, "I promise to love you for all of our tomorrows."

[Groom] and [Bride], in the days ahead of you, there will be stormy times and good times, times of conflict and times of joy. I ask you to remember this advice:

· Never go to bed angry.

· Let your love be stronger than your anger.

· Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend than to break.

· Believe the best of your beloved rather than the worst.

· Confide in your partner and ask for help when you need it.

· Remember that true friendship is the basis for any lasting relationship.

· Give your spouse the same courtesies and kindnesses you bestow on your friends.

· Say "I love you" every day.

Vows:

[Groom] and [Bride], I remind you that marriage is a precious gift, a lifelong commitment, and a challenge to love one another more completely each and every day.
Please join hands and look into each other's eyes.

[Groom], with this understanding, do you take [Bride] to be your wedded wife to live together in marriage? Do you promise to love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others and to be faithful only to her, so long as you both shall live?

Groom: “I do.”

[Bride], with this understanding, do you take [Groom] to be your wedded husband, to live together in marriage? Do you promise to love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others and to be faithful only to him, so long as you both shall live?

Bride: “I do.”

Rings:

May I have the rings please?
The ring, an unbroken, never-ending circle, is a symbol of committed, unending love.
[Groom], as you place this ring on [Bride]'s finger, repeat these words after me:

This ring, a gift for you,
symbolizes my desire
that you be my wife
from this day forward.
As this ring has no end
neither shall my love for you.

[Bride], as you place this ring on [Groom]'s finger, repeat these words after me:

This ring, a gift for you,
symbolizes my desire
that you be my husband
from this day forward.
As this ring has no end
neither shall my love for you.

Challenge to the Bride and Groom:

[Groom] and [Bride], in your journey of life together, remind yourselves often of the love that brought you together. Give the highest priority to your love. When challenges come, remember to focus on what is right between you. In this way, you can ride out the storms. And when clouds hide the sun in your lives - remember, even if you lose sight of it for a moment, the sun is always there.

Apache Blessing:

Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth for the other. Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be companion to the other. Now you are two persons, but there are three lives before you; His life, Her life and Your life together.

Pronouncement:

[Groom] and [Bride], you have consented together in holy matrimony before God, have pledged your vows to each other, and have exchanged rings as tokens of your love and commitment to each other. In accordance with the laws of the state of California, with the authority of the Universal Life Church, and with great joy, I now pronounce you husband and wife.

YOU MAY SEAL YOUR VOWS WITH A KISS!

Congratulations, Mr. and Mrs. [Groom’s Surname]!